Good morning ladies and gentle men, I just felt like writing about this particular topic this morning.I don't intend to make this post too long,so i have decided to post it in parts,today i will be posting the part one.
When it comes to discovering who we are, most of us are just left behind, we have been living under a wrong identity all this while, most people don’t really know who they are and what they want, such people have been trying their best to fit into the society, imitating who so ever they feel is good enough, this sometime always lead to low self esteem.
“low self esteem is a feeling of inferiority within yourself thinking you are not equall to others that they are far better than you’’
I will tell you that 99% of those living with low self esteem are those still living under a wrong identity
‘now living under a wrong identity means not being the real you ,trying to imitate another person just because you like the way the person speaks, dress and all of those stuff”,
you see most a times we are been carried away neglecting who we really are, forgetting that the person we are imitating is totally different from who we are, the truth about this whole issue is that we are are all different,as our faces differs so does our characters, and each and everyone of us on earth has different characters and personalities no matter how similar it might look there must be an elemnt of difference in our characters. Now as our characters and personalities differs that means that every man is unique by their difference,so no matter how hard we tried to practice the characters that does not originally belongs to us we can never fit in, that is the fact!!
Now that we have found out what it means, a major question disturbing the hearts of many is,Apart from imitating others because we like their behaviors and characters what are the other things that leads to living under a wrong identity?
1.Enviromental influence; Our environment plays a major role in our life be it positive or negative, man has always be n the adaptive side, trying their possible best to adapt to the environment, this has caused of us not to adapt to our society alone but also to an identity that is not ours. There was this guy named jimoh, he was in the college at that time when his family moved to our estate, when they came he was a cool shy guy, but as time goes on, our estate been filled with teenagers like him, they started influencing, few months later jimoh became something else, keeping late nights, drinking alcohol, keeping numerous girlfriends and even smoking, what really happened to jimoh? yes the environment changed remember an environment is made up of living and non living things, even your friends can be your environment, most f have found ourselves in cases similar to that of jimoh .
2.Trying to impress someone; This is very common amongst younger ones, tying to impress a girl or a boy by adapting to a personality that is not theirs , some boys feels behaving in a special way will win them the girl of their dreams, and they foolishly try it out just make their dreams come through, the simpe truth is that all that does nt work,because as you continue to live under a false identity you can never be happy, or moreover how long will yo continue to live under such bondage knowing fully well that this is not the real you..
I don’t intend to make this post long, now that we have some of the ,major causes living under false identity, lets see how we can tackle it and come out of our false shell to become the real us.
When it comes to discovering who we are, most of us are just left behind, we have been living under a wrong identity all this while, most people don’t really know who they are and what they want, such people have been trying their best to fit into the society, imitating who so ever they feel is good enough, this sometime always lead to low self esteem.
“low self esteem is a feeling of inferiority within yourself thinking you are not equall to others that they are far better than you’’
I will tell you that 99% of those living with low self esteem are those still living under a wrong identity
‘now living under a wrong identity means not being the real you ,trying to imitate another person just because you like the way the person speaks, dress and all of those stuff”,
you see most a times we are been carried away neglecting who we really are, forgetting that the person we are imitating is totally different from who we are, the truth about this whole issue is that we are are all different,as our faces differs so does our characters, and each and everyone of us on earth has different characters and personalities no matter how similar it might look there must be an elemnt of difference in our characters. Now as our characters and personalities differs that means that every man is unique by their difference,so no matter how hard we tried to practice the characters that does not originally belongs to us we can never fit in, that is the fact!!
Now that we have found out what it means, a major question disturbing the hearts of many is,Apart from imitating others because we like their behaviors and characters what are the other things that leads to living under a wrong identity?
1.Enviromental influence; Our environment plays a major role in our life be it positive or negative, man has always be n the adaptive side, trying their possible best to adapt to the environment, this has caused of us not to adapt to our society alone but also to an identity that is not ours. There was this guy named jimoh, he was in the college at that time when his family moved to our estate, when they came he was a cool shy guy, but as time goes on, our estate been filled with teenagers like him, they started influencing, few months later jimoh became something else, keeping late nights, drinking alcohol, keeping numerous girlfriends and even smoking, what really happened to jimoh? yes the environment changed remember an environment is made up of living and non living things, even your friends can be your environment, most f have found ourselves in cases similar to that of jimoh .
2.Trying to impress someone; This is very common amongst younger ones, tying to impress a girl or a boy by adapting to a personality that is not theirs , some boys feels behaving in a special way will win them the girl of their dreams, and they foolishly try it out just make their dreams come through, the simpe truth is that all that does nt work,because as you continue to live under a false identity you can never be happy, or moreover how long will yo continue to live under such bondage knowing fully well that this is not the real you..
I don’t intend to make this post long, now that we have some of the ,major causes living under false identity, lets see how we can tackle it and come out of our false shell to become the real us.
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